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“All You Had to Do Was Ask”

Helga Weber | CC

As many of you know, I joined a gym earlier this year, and one of the perks I listed for joining my particular gym was the manager’s promise to personally assist me whenever I asked.

Well, because my beau is a bit of a workout junkie and set up a few fairly awesome routines for me, I never had any questions.

Until a few weeks...
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Before and After Pictures: A Portrait of Your Mind


A few weeks ago, I published a post on my thoughts about before-and-after pictures of our bodies.

Since then, I've been thinking about how that idea relates – perhaps more positively – to before-and-after pictures of our minds.

I've always dabbled in exercise and healthy eating, but it wasn't until a few years ago that I got serious about it; not just for my body, but also for my mind....
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POLL: Before-and-After Pictures: More Harm Than Good?

I have to admit: I love before-and-after pictures off all kinds. Home renovations, furniture restorations, even makeup transformations -- you name it, chances are I love looking at it.

Except when it comes to before-and-after pictures of our bodies. I’m a bit on the fence about those.

On the one hand, it’s inspiring to see someone get in great shape; it can make you feel like you, too, have the power to be your fittest self (not to...
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How to Stop Feeling Guilty Over Others’ Accomplishments


Wait, what? How to stop feeling guilty over others' accomplishments?

Aren't we more commonly jealous, envious, or resentful over other people's success?

Maybe. However, when we see others succeeding while we're NOT succeeding, we feel a little guilty, too -- especially if we feel there's something we can do about it. After all, if that person makes the time, energy, and determination to accomplish their goals, why aren't we?

Well, there is something we can do about it,...
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