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A Fun Friday?

Fun, Fun, just wanna have it. Okay! boys, too. Yeah, my kinda fun and your kinda need some defining, eh??

Usually fun is something very challenging and being pushed to my

, for example, to finish a project and/or having a last second a to be exact! Or fun IS hours of deep study, meditation--when I'm wrapping my brain around some topic of intrigue/puzzle/enigma.

May be, I'm reframing stress as FUN: May be ?...
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Bring “It” On and Bring “It” Out!

Are You feelin' it?!

Oh yeah, I'm feelin' it!!

And what is "it"'re wondering, huh?!

You kinda need to know what "it" is before answering my initial question, eh?! ;)

"It" is other than a big sneeze, though my allergies are acting other things acting

the daily PRESS-URE IS ON!!! (pressure can also be subtle, seductive gradualism aka erosion)

And I'm resisting the squeezing, sneezing (and melting)!...a big bear hug is...
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Apathy and Indifference

A Shoulder to Sleep On or To Cry On?

Empathy, we all need some!

Some to give and some to get: No Excuses – Empathy Needed

Empathy: What's Your description?! Here's an on-line dictionary's description:

"The action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an...
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Dangerous Places: Movies, Malls & Classrooms?!

Danger and Horror have a way of deeply imprinting memories in our mind.

I remember exactly where I was and what I was doing

rocking and nursing my (1 month) brand-new baby boy L-P. Usually, when engaged in this activity of privilege: feeding and comforting our baby, the TV was off! (Talking, singing, reading, music was on!)

However, this was not a usual day and for whatever unusual reason, the TV was ,

I heard the horrific Columbine...
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Confessions Of A Caregiver

Confessions. An attracting or repulsing concept.

Blog description: A potentially playful truth or dare post IF you will.

Who hasn't made a confession?? Who hasn't played truth or dare??

What are you playing??

Doesn't everybody/somebody have "something" to confess or own up to or admit to or hide??

Some of us carry around weighty or light secrets (benign or malignant) we believe only we know. You must be carrying a secret, right??

Yes, certain professions require discretion, confidentiality, secrecy and/or responsibility...
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Rhyme Time: Memory Aid

Poetry and rhyme are helpful positive most schools.

Rhyme and poetry can serve as positive any blog. Especially, when Your brain's in a fog or your thoughts are distracted by a barking dog -lol or any favorite frog or

I try to employ coy;)...concise combinations of words when I wish

to express various

learning lessons



for example,

this post is giving me

space to my own pace

to day


and with out delay:


Succinctly and
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A Partner In Pain: How To Help Two

Greetings Psych Central and Beyond! I wish You PEACE.

Peace of Mind and Peace of Heart; that's a wellness start!:)

On the 18th of this month, I said "goodbye" to the 17th tooth in my mouth. A wisdom tooth that has been bothering me for a while.  (What's been bothering You?? and for a while??) Hope You get relief.

For context IF You wish, You can check out:...
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32 Reasons For Happiness

HOORAY! Today, September 1st, (2013) quadruple eight (32) Reasons for HAPPINESS to Ruminate:

*Please Note: This on-going list is a Coping Tool for Partners, Caregivers and Others. Positive Reflection adds to Our Wellness!

32. Loyalty. Having at least 1 Loyal Friend is (really) all You need. Having/finding more than 1: a blessing!:)

31. Forgiveness. Having at least 1 Forgiving Friend is (really) all You need. Having/finding more than 1: a blessing!

30. Honesty. Having at least 1 Honest...
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LOVE: a 4 Letter Word Mothers (Should) Use!

Oh, it's okay baby, don't cry! (Mother, Mom, Mommy), Mama IS here for You because I LOVE You!

This beautiful word is expressed not only on our lips throughout the day to our kids, but in our daily deeds as we assist our young ones growing to maturity. Maturity doesn't involve just physical growth, but emotional, mental and spiritual growth as well. As mothers, our choices affect our kids in complicated ways. (Ways we...
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