The Lost Art of Marriage

Ever been to a posh, expensive restaurant and looked around to see couples who are fiddling with the napkins, sipping their wine, staring into space and actively avoiding eye contact…



Anger Therapy

Aristotle said: Anybody can become angry, that is easy; but to be angry with the right person, and to the right degree, and at the right time, and for the…



Whether the Weather

Why does cold weather make me happy? I love cold weather. I love rugging up to the eyeballs and splashing in puddles. The only time I go to the beach…



Phamily Pherapy

Thanks to therapy, my family is still alive and kicking and functioning reasonably well. We have our moments when one member gets out of kilter with the rest of us,…



Why Women Cry

Many years ago I was addicted to housework. I based my self-esteem on whether or not my stovetop and oven shone to perfection or the windows gleamed so invisible that…



Lying on the Couch

There are lies, damn lies and then there’s therapy. While it would appear counter-productive to lie to your therapist it happens all the time for various reasons. Sometimes the lies…