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Coping Skills

What is Stigma?

Anyone who knows someone with a mental illness has probably heard the word stigma at some point in talking to them.

They’ve probably been made aware that the media perpetrates an idea that people with major mental illnesses are unhinged and hopefully they’ve seen, through their friend or loved one that that that notion couldn’t be farther from the truth in the grand scheme of things.

It may seem like people with mental illness are...
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Sometimes We Need to Relax and That’s OK

I have trouble with this. I’m sure a lot of other people do too.

Essentially, I feel like I should be doing something productive every second of every day.

While being productive isn’t a bad thing there comes a point where you can eventually stress yourself out and for a person with mental illness, stress is the different between sanity and darkness.

I’ve said before that stress is like the light-switch for when my symptoms start...
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How to Make Friends

It seems to be a common problem of growing older that it becomes increasingly more difficult to make friends. In high school and college sheer proximity helped to forge some of the strongest friendships we’ll ever have. As we get older though, and get into our thirties and forties, making friends gets more and more difficult.

It seems that friendships go from being all-inclusive to once in a blue moon hangout time where it’s...
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What Are You Thankful For?

I’ve spoken numerous times on the fact that happiness is fleeting and how it’s not something we should be striving for because it’s so momentary. I’ve talked about instead of happiness we should seek contentment through expressing gratitude.

How do we know what to express gratitude for though?

What if we can’t find it within ourselves to be thankful?
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How I Express Gratitude


I’ve talked before about seeking happiness, how it’s fleeting and isn’t sustainable and how we should seek contentment instead.

Contentment is the knowledge that things are ok, that although they could be better, they are, in the moment, pretty good.

One of the biggest ways to find contentment is through expressing gratitude and being thankful.

A lot of people have trouble with this though so I figured I’d tell you about my favorite ways of being...
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How I Find Contentment


I’ve talked before about how, instead of trying to seek happiness we should aim for the more manageable goal of contentment. I think this is something we would all do well to wrap our heads around because constant happiness, as it stands, is fleeting. It’s a momentary thing that lasts for a day at most before the everyday starts to come flooding back into the picture.

Contentment, on the other hand, is the feeling...
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It’s OK to be Paranoid


In the time I’ve been living with schizophrenia there have been numerous instances, almost too many to count, where I fell into a whirlwind of paranoia.

Maybe it was surrounding some social anxiety I had or maybe I heard laughter that I imagined was about me or maybe someone said something that made me paranoid about what they thought.

The point is, I’ve been there.

There’s something else that has the tendency to happen in the...
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How I Deal With Difficult People

I feel bad even thinking about writing this. If you knew me you’d know that I’m very careful about speaking with ill will toward anybody. I believe everyone deserves respect regardless of their habits and their countenance, but as a naturally paranoid person, I’m also very wary of people.

A lot of the things that people do have a tendency to confuse me. Over the years this confusion has turned into a relative annoyance with people,...
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How to Be OK With Your Diagnosis


I know what it’s like to be terrified of a label.

I was diagnosed schizophrenic ten years ago and at the outset the label of crazy was like a death sentence. To me, as yet uneducated in the intricacies of mental illness, the diagnosis was horrifying. It meant that I was crazy, it meant that everything I believed about what was happening was an illusion. It was as if you were told that you’re whole life...
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How to be Patient: Dealing with the Fire of Ambition

The twenties are hard.

I know this innately having just emerged from that tenuous decade with some serious life lessons.

For the longest time I wanted things so badly I would’ve done anything. I wanted success so badly I wrote for gossip magazines and for content mills that got rich without paying me simply for the exposure.

I know what it’s like to feel as if, no matter what you do, your situation isn’t changing. I know what...
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