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  • April 30, 2015 at 8:42 pm

               I would like to have your opinion on a situation I’m in. I’ve contacted two therapists online who were no help at all. I am 19 years old and I believe I have a narcissistic mother. The relationship with my mother is spiraling out of control.
            I am the oldest of eight children and the responsibility of them all is tiring me out everyday. My mother of course tries to turn all of them against me( Manipulation), even though I try to help. I am out of highschool and graduated in 2013. During 2013-mid 2014, I ran away to live with my granny and two aunties. They were so jealous of me, they put a dent in helping me learn how to drive and get into college.
            I was their maid around the house. Towards the end around March 2014 My mom had her new eighth child. My granny and two aunties dropped me off back to my mom in Mississippi to see my new baby sister then left for good back to Illinois.
             Around November 2014 my step dad beat up my mom. Me and the second oldest(Brother) went out to call the police. The others were in the room safe. This year mom got back with him and she is pregnant AGAIN with her ninth child. I don’t want another baby. I have to almost raise all the newborns. Because of her I hate children and want to do something to not have children. But she is not stopping, she says she wants to adopt more!!! No way! She is barely around us to help and when she is,, she’s fussing at us and our step dad shakes his head at us and yells too.
           I want a better life and have no emotional support. I stay indoors all day and rarely see the sun. I used to cry when I went in stores because I wasn’t used to people or outside. My mom and aunties laughed about  anxiety and now I hear voices. I’m not sure if its because of sleep paralysis or deprivation. I know nothing about life, and mom and step dad think I’m stupid and ” My opinions in this family don’t matter”

    My step dad pursaded my mom to let me back in after she kicked me out for not saying “Yes Mam” Whenever I speak my mind she always hits me. I have a bruise on my arm because she pinched me. She doesn’t care if she bleaches my clothes. Because I accidentally destroyed her fur coat. She said wash it and when I did she said she never said it. Please help me to decide what to do before she has the baby. She doesn’t appreciate my help and I want to leave this year. She always says “There is the door!”

    With much appreciation Share:-)

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