Breaking Up is Hard to Do

Why do teens stalk each other’s phones?  They think of themselves as mini detectives like on TV searching for proof of cheating.  Yet adolescents who have had their phones grabbed for scrutiny say the following: If she thinks I’m such a big cheater,


Why Cheat?


Stalking your boyfriend or girlfriend gets you what exactly?  When I talk to adolescents and young adults in therapy they often want to show me their texts that they’re saving (for what?) as “proof”