Archives for September, 2013

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Online Relationships: Real or Fantasy?

When I “e-meet” someone, that is connect online, I often have strong and immediate feelings that I like them or that I don’t, even though I have never seen them or talked to them in person.  It is not a stretch to see that this feeling of connection can be experienced by many people as an intimate and even sexual attraction.  (I have dealt with the topic of connecting sexually through cybersex vs....
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4 Ways to Feel Lonely and 5 Ways to Turn it Around

Sex addicts don’t have a monopoly on loneliness although they often say it is one reason for their sexually compulsive behavior.  I was lonely as a child myself and I feel sympathy for my clients who have trouble dealing with loneliness and feeling abandoned.

People feel lonely in many different situations and for different reasons.  I believe there is always a way to understand and and use the experience .

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