When you first discover sexually compulsive behavior in a partner, it may be hard to think straight. Nevertheless, you are in a position of being a “first responder” in a crisis situation that seems to require action of some sort.
The mere idea of “sex addiction” gets a lot of people angry. I’m talking here about the writers who rail about the “myth” of sexual addiction and who argue that the whole idea of sex addiction is just a cop-out for the addict and a money making scam for the professionals.
That can be the feeling you get when you’ve encountered a seduction addict. These are the “nice guys” of sex addiction. But anyone who has ever dated a compulsive seducer can tell you that they are as intimacy disabledas any other sex addict,