2 thoughts on “Is Toxic Shame Sabotaging Your Recovery?

  • January 21, 2020 at 1:17 pm

    Hello is toxic shame an addiction? That you can be an addict of toxic shame?

    • January 21, 2020 at 4:04 pm

      Hi Sarah, intriguing question! We can indeed become ‘addicted’ (‘attached’) to negative emotional states which we then unconsciously seek to re-create; toxic shame is unconscious to begin with; it is possible we might find we ourselves in situation after situation in which we are experiencing toxic shame – but likely we would not realize it, given that it exists beneath conscious awareness (unlike ‘ordinary’ shame). Great question, one which I will continue to contemplate!


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