6 thoughts on “Abandonment Fears of a Vulnerable Narcissist: BPD at the Core

  • November 18, 2017 at 10:07 pm

    Narcissism can be also viewed as a disease. There are narcissists employers out here who think it’s all about them and that some of their employees are yes men. A narcissist employer doesn’t see anything he or she does wrong, and continually put down others either directly to their faces or in secret. These types of narcissists employers have a lot to hide and skeletons in their closets.

    Narcissists employers can possibly be a blessing in disguise when they push the wrong person mentally. They test the wrong person with their narcissistic attitude and inspire the employee they’re targeting to not only start their own business, but to be well on the journey to becoming a future millionaire. While all narcissists are possibly arrogant and self-centered, they end up being a footstool in the end and used as a stepping stone for greatness, without return on their narcissistic investment.

    • November 19, 2017 at 6:56 pm

      yes, toxic people can be found in the workplace, in families, and in romantic and friendship relationships. That’s whey we need psychological abuse awareness going on out there….

      • November 29, 2017 at 9:59 pm

        I agree with you Andrea. 🙂

      • January 15, 2018 at 8:53 pm

        thank you 🙂

  • November 20, 2017 at 4:57 pm

    At first glance at the title, I thought it implied people with NPD have BPD, but I do think when BPD and NPD traits are found in one person, the tie is DEFINITELY vulnerability, shame, and fear of abandonment. Great read!

    • November 20, 2017 at 6:11 pm

      Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks!


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