Archives for November, 2014

Couples Communication

Couple Communications: 5 Prerequisites to Unlock Your Imagination, 4 of 5

A healthy, vibrant couple relationship takes two persons working as a team, and as individuals, to change what is only in the power of each to change, more specifically, to unlock their imagination by shifting away from limiting, subconscious perceptions (, beliefs, thinking patterns) that act as key hindrances to realizing natural aspirations for a deeper sense of trust, and an increasingly more meaningful love-connection.

Continuing from Part 3, the fourth prerequisite shift turns your focus to the value of...
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The Paradox of Genuine Love: Why Loving Your Self Equals Loving Your Partner (And Vice Versa)

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The permission to fully love and embrace your self and life with wonder, a compassionate love and acceptance is no small matter. Paradoxically, you need your own love and acceptance to fully and genuinely love your partner (and vice ).

Why?

Several reasons. For one, it is impossible to be in a love...
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The Shadow Side of Falling In Love: The Power That Drives Addictions to Love, Sex and Romance

Whereas genuine love fosters a mutually empathic connection between two persons, one that nourishes the mental, physical and emotional growth and capacity for compassion and self-actualization of each, the neurochemistry of love relationships can morph into a dangerous mix of drugs more difficult to part with than alcohol, cocaine or heroine.

Notably, we use many of the same words to describe the personality shift observed in those (our self included) we experience to be "in love" and those with...
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Couple Communications: 5 Prerequisites to Unlock Imagination (And Get Out of Stuck Places), 3 of 5

When it comes to healing your couple communications and relationship, there are at least five prerequisite shifts in perception that are critical to help you unlock your imagination, and galvanize the energy you need to take action -- to break out of stuck places and let go of old comfort zones (thus making it more likely your partner will do the same).

Continuing from Part 2, the third prerequisite shift in perception allows you to take 100% responsibility for how you respond to life events, and...
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