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Conscious Lifestyle

Self-Love: The Key to Breaking the Fear Barrier to Feel Safe Enough Love

Have you considered that, the biggest obstacle to realizing the loving connection you desire with the special person in your life may be: a part or parts of yourself you do not fully or really love?

Often disowned since childhood, knowingly or unknowingly, these parts hold the power to cause a lifelong disturbance in the neurochemistry of your brain and body. So much so, in fact, that this block your ability to form, and maintain, a healthy -- mutually enriching --...
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Addictive Relating

On the Nature of Power: Four Attributes of R.E.A.L. Power, 2 of 2

In Part 1, power was described as an ongoing choice regarding the type of energy (emotion) we activate in and around us.  It is not power that has a particular effect, however, rather what we believe power is, which directly impacts how we exercise, handle or respond to one another's personal power, , actions, choices, and so on.

The view of power we hold, either as a capacity to make optimally creative choices, or an ability to...
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Conscious Lifestyle

On the Nature of Power: The Choice Between “Real” Power or Illusion, 1 of 2

The concept of power is widely misunderstood, yet how we conceptualize "power" -- our own and others'  -- shapes our innermost values, and thus the neurochemical processes that decide the direction of our behaviors, relationships and life.

As human beings, it is our nature to attribute meanings to our world through the use of language and symbols. These meanings in turn shape our lives, especially when they are hidden from view.

Our view of "power"...
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