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Boredom

Revenge is it’s Own Punishment

There are few criticisms that provoke more defensiveness than the accusation of being “vengeful.” For most of us, this is a particularly nasty attribute, even more negative than being egotistical, selfish, lazy, or controlling. To be vengeful is to deliberately seek to cause harm...


Attraction

How We Both Win

LindaThere is a political activist hat I admire named George Lakey. He has been a successful change agent in the area of non-violent actions for five decades. In his inspirational book, How We Win, he makes the important distinction between a protest and a...


Attraction

Irreconcilable Differences

LindaEven the most successful marriages contain irreconcilable differences, those differences that cannot be resolved completely. Some differences can be deal-breakers if one or both partners can't tolerate them. But when there is a foundation of love and respect, this situation is less likely to...


Commitment

Love Language Plus

LindaI would like to honor Gary Chapman for his wonderful book The 5 Love Languages where he does an elegant job of describing the five most common ways that people like to have love shown: words of affirmation, acts of service, touch, gifts, and the way...