At Onement

Linda: September incudes the Jewish holiday of Yom Kippur which is the last day of the High Holiday season that begins with the Jewish New Year, Rosh Hashonah. The ten days in between the two are called the "Days of Awe" and...


A Surprising Finding about Romance

LindaSandra Murray, professor at State University of New York in Buffalo, researched the strength of illusion in romantic couples.

Her inventory asked both married and dating couples to rate themselves, their actual partner, and an imaginary partner on both strengths and faults. Then Murray asked...


Are You a Champion of Repair?

LindaNo matter how hard we try, there are sure to be breakdowns of all kinds, misunderstandings, broken agreements, not having our needs met, unhealed wounds that get activated and other provocations that send us straight into conflict. It’s not the negative interactions themselves that...