Revenge is it’s Own Punishment

Revenge is it’s Own Punishment

There are few criticisms that provoke more defensiveness than the accusation of being “vengeful.” For most of us, this is a particularly nasty attribute, even more negative than being egotistical,

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How We Both Win

How We Both Win

LindaThere is a political activist hat I admire named George Lakey. He has been a successful change agent in the area of non-violent actions for five decades.

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Irreconcilable Differences

Irreconcilable Differences

LindaEven the most successful marriages contain irreconcilable differences, those differences that cannot be resolved completely. Some differences can be deal-breakers if one or both partners can’t tolerate them.

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Counter Intuitive Moves

Counter Intuitive Moves

CharlieSeveral years ago I attended a lecture by a well-known spiritual teacher and arrived twenty minutes late. On my way in I asked the doorman to give me a condensed version of what I’d missed.

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Love Language Plus

Love Language Plus

LindaI would like to honor Gary Chapman for his wonderful book The 5 Love Languages where he does an elegant job of describing the five most common ways that people like to have love shown: words of affirmation,

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