Family of Choice

Family of Choice

Linda: I grew up in the South and my only living grandparents lived in New York City. Except for occasional visits up North, I rarely saw them. I remember having…

Be Your Own Hero

Be Your Own Hero

Linda: We live in a world in which people are defined and identified and even valued in accordance to the groups to which they belong. These characterizations are based upon…

Reframing

Reframing

The Transformative Power of Suffering Linda: Life is sometimes difficult. We don’t get what we want, and we get a lot of what we don’t want. We can start to…

The Situation Is Urgent

The Situation Is Urgent

We must proceed very slowly. Linda: There is usually one in the pair that can process information more rapidly than the other. Often, it is the woman who can move…

Ordinary Magic

Ordinary Magic

Nasrudin is a mythical figure from the Sufi tradition. He had the reputation of being a rascal. When he arrived at the border with a donkey caravan, the inspector had…

No Search and Destroy Part 3

No Search and Destroy Part 3

Image management to authenticity. Linda: Here is a good example of a couple who has been doing Shadow work, who interrupted a downward spiral and turned a breakdown into a…

No Search and Destroy Part 1

No Search and Destroy Part 1

Search and befriend Linda: The process of discovering our hidden parts is not about “search and destroy.” Search and befriend is probably a better way to put it. We don’t…