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Attraction

What Kind of a File Are You Keeping? Part 2

Linda: Keeping track of how difficult (selfish, dishonest, controlling, unreasonable, cruel, stubborn, bitchy, mean, aggressive, distant, cold, shut-down, possessive, irrational, hysterical, illogical, over-sexed, under-sexed, boring, passive, rejecting and unloving to name a few) the other person is, is building evidence in a file. The...


Attraction

Embracing Change

Linda: Changing conditioned patterns is not easy, but believing that change is possible is a good start. Transformation is possible if people find the motivation to do so. People change all the time when it makes sense to them that if they do, their life will be enhanced. Enlightened self-interest can work wonders. We are all motivated by “what’s in it for me?” rather than “it’s the right thing to do.”

Finding the motivation to disrupt a bad...


Commitment

Flow State Together Part 2

Linda: Flow is the ultimate ecstatic experience, the highest level of happiness. A successful marriage operates inflow state a large portion of the time because both partners are meeting challenges with skills. Here is a story of a couple that has discovered that for them,...