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Addiction

I Can and I Will

Intention comes from the Latin intendere, which means to lean towards, to move towards. This is the source of the energy that moves us in the desired direction. There is a difference between desire and intention. Desire has to do with a wish or...


Betrayal

Revenge is it’s Own Punishment

There are few criticisms that provoke more defensiveness than the accusation of being “vengeful.” For most of us, this is a particularly nasty attribute, even more negative than being egotistical, selfish, lazy, or controlling. To be vengeful is to deliberately seek to cause harm...


Attraction

How We Both Win

LindaThere is a political activist hat I admire named George Lakey. He has been a successful change agent in the area of non-violent actions for five decades. In his inspirational book, How We Win, he makes the important distinction between a protest and a...


Attraction

Irreconcilable Differences

LindaEven the most successful marriages contain irreconcilable differences, those differences that cannot be resolved completely. Some differences can be deal-breakers if one or both partners can't tolerate them. But when there is a foundation of love and respect, this situation is less likely to...