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Relationship Corner
with Tarra Bates-Duford, Ph.D., MFT

Family, Mental Health, Relationships, Support. Treatment

How to Talk to Teens about Sexting: 8 Helpful Tips

Not long ago the term sexting wasn’t a term you heard very often or at the very least understood by most. Unlike the teens of yester years whose life played out in school or on the telephone, most of today’s teens are comfortable with playing out and documenting their lives online via social media outlets. Sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit photos, messages, voicemails, IM’s, videos, etc., either via phone, computer, webcam...


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How to Help Children Celebrate Holidays After Parents’ Divorce

Unfortunately, with most divorces even those that are amicable the connection and contact does not end when it becomes finalized. Many times and for many different reasons former couples will need to interact post-divorce to address some lingering issues, , joint financial responsibilities, property, etc. However, when there are children of the marriage the contact and communication between the former spouses must be ongoing for the sake, health, and...


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Parenting children with an abused past

Children are placed in foster care as a result of abuse or neglect. Children are never removed from their home if there were not allegations (pending an investigation) and substantiated cases of abuse (the abuse or neglect has been confirmed. Children who have experienced maltreatment often have developed different ways of perceiving and reacting to the world around them. However, coping strategies utilized by children with a history of abuse and neglect often prove...


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Talking to Your Children About Divorce

Thousands of couples experience the stress of divorce each year. However, notably children can experience similar reactions to their parent’s divorce. Based upon the age of the child or children reactions can often be influence by personality, circumstances, familial environment prior to separation or divorce, perception or confusion about living environment should a divorce occur. Events like divorce not only affects the couple involved in the relationship but the children as well. Typically, the initial...


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Managing a Child’s Difficult Behaviors

Managing negative behaviors of children can be frustrating, tiresome, maddening, and even embarrassing for many parents. One of the biggest and most challenging roles a parent can face in their role as parent involves both managing and mediating a child’s defiant or otherwise inappropriate behaviors. When children engage in defiant behaviors by refusing to follow parent directives, throwing items, pushing/shoving, aggressive behavior, or throwing an all-out tantrum, parents are often at...


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Families & Vacations

Often throughout the year we are inundated with several different responsibilities, often simultaneously and even conflicting at times. Adults often endure the daily grind of having to work, provide for children, and manage household expenses and chores, medical emergencies, etc. Unfortunately, our small people...


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Familial Support during a mental health crisis

Enduring the symptoms related to mental illness or experiencing a mental decompensation can be extremely terrifying and confusing. Fear and other negative feelings can be true for both those diagnosed as well as the family that loves them. Often when persons with a mental illness begin to experience early onset symptoms related to the disorder, fear, confusion, sadness, and anxiety serves as one of the many contributing factors for self-isolating,...