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#Me Too: 15 Reasons Why Survivors Do Not Report Sexual Assault


 

Many of us have seen or heard about the hashtag #Me Too, however, many of us failed to realize this was a movement created more than 10 years ago in Harlem, NY. This movement was created to bring awareness of sexual assaults against people of color living in underprivileged communities. In October of 2017, “Me Too” started being used as a two-word hashtag on social media to help demonstrate the widespread prevalence of sexual assault and...
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Female vs Male Friendships: 10 Key Differences


Most friendships typically form for the same reasons, , shared interests, support, and companionship. However, the type of relationship appears to differ between male and female relationships.

Men, unlike women, tend to prefer more activity-based friendships while women tend to prefer more friendships relationships. Although, the dynamics of male-male friendships and female-female friendships are more similar than they are different, there remains a difference in how the genders view and engage in friendships. While one is more casual...
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Changes in Intimacy After Dementia: 10 Changes


There is no denying dementia causes significant changes in the life of the sufferer. Unfortunately, the first thing that comes to mind for most people when they consider the topic of dementia includes memory changes and confusion, however, romantic relationships can also be impacted. Dementia can affect both emotional, romantic, and physical connectedness. Often changes to romantic relationships can be difficult to discuss as most people do not feel comfortable discussing issues or problems in their intimate...
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Why Do We Want the People We Can’t Have? 9 Reasons


I am sure we can all remember being a child and wanting something our parents said we could not have, yet after being denied, we wanted it even more.

Consider this, you have a teenage daughter and as a parent you really dislike her bad boy boyfriend, however, the more you try to discourage the relationship the more she seems to want to be with him. The same response can occur with adults.

Unfortunately, despite continual discouragement and...
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Trypophobia- Fear of Holes


Trypophobia refers to an intense, irrational fear, or anxiety associated with irregular patterns or clusters of small holes or bumps. Trypophobia is often referred to as repetitive pattern phobia. It is a little known phobia that typically refers to the fear of clustered holes, such as aerated chocolate, crumpets, honeycombs, coral reefs, lotus flowers, etc. Sufferers experience a visceral reaction to often non-threatening patterns found on animals, flowers, etc., leading feelings like nausea, light headedness, shortness...
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Personality Disorders: When Opposites Attract


By now, many of us have taken notice of the fact that individuals with differing personality disorders are often appear drawn to each other. Interestingly, but all too commonly one person with a personality disorder attracts someone with a different type of personality disorder, both parties have personality disorders (PDs)--but on opposite ends of the spectrum. People that suffer from personality disorders typically are attracted to others with personality disorders in which the disorder is complementary and...
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Dating The Same Type of Person: 13 Types


Dating and relationships can be a little tricky for many of us, specifically, for those that have a “type”. Perhaps you fall for the bad guy type, the intellectual, the comic, the free spirited, or the hot girl. You may even have a physical type, such as, light eyes, dark eyes, red hair, brunette, tanned skin, dark skin, light skinned, or a preference with regards to body type and shaping. After years of dating and relationship experience...
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Sexual Addiction: Male and Female Differences


Sexual addiction is described as a progressive obsession with engaging in sexual acts, sexual thoughts, or having an abnormally intense sex drive. Often, the lives of those with sexual addiction are plagued with dominating thoughts of sex or having sex. Sexual addiction like most other addictions can interfere with daily functioning, causing a significant negative impact on the addict, and those that love him/her as the disorder progresses. Unfortunately, like other addictions the addict must “use more”,...
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Trauma and Psychogenic Seizures: 12 Potential Causes


Psychogenic non-epileptic seizures (PNES) can be one of the most difficult topics to discuss both for the patient as well as the health care provider. It is estimated that PNES are diagnosed in 20 to 30% of patients seen at epilepsy centers for intractable seizures. The diagnosis of PNES is much more common than most people would think, in actuality, PNES is pretty common. Surprisingly, almost 25% of individuals diagnosed with epilepsy that are not responding to...
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Blind Family Loyalties: 7 Types


Family loyalty refers to the feelings of mutually shared obligations, responsibilities, commitment, and closeness that exist among family members (, parents and children, between siblings, grandparents and grandchildren, and other close family members). Not surprisingly, loyalty is not a character trait we value in just our family members; we also seek the same and or similar traits in others that are close to us, like our friends. Not only are we drawn to loyalty traits in...
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