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  • August 29, 2018 at 7:40 am

    Shahida, I like how you put this, ( Darker Reasons ) I’ll be pulling this out, in the future, next time I get hovered, and rereading. Nice job of getting all the points across quickly.

    (they simply miss having control over you, access to your various resources and the power they wielded in the relationship.)

    (Hoovering has the ability to trigger the trauma bond and unhealed wounds, bringing them to the surface and compelling us to go back to the source of the trauma as a form of comfort.)
    This is what I have most difficultly with, have done the go back multipole times.
    I am finally getting stronger because of post like this.
    thank you

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