4 thoughts on “Skirting the Borderline: the Only Time It’s Them, Not You

  • January 15, 2020 at 2:40 pm

    Good analogy.. Good job not laying blame or making one party” wrong”.

    • February 19, 2020 at 2:21 pm

      Thank you, Wendy. I appreciate your feedback.

  • February 12, 2020 at 7:57 am

    Anyone stating that there is only one way things occur, such as our manifesting it somehow is extremely ‘closed minded’. It seems that it is quite a disorder to insist so blatantly that it must occur one way only. An extremely boring world we live in when such concepts are embraced and sadly, such populations make up the majority. They are quite the hypocrites are they not.

    • February 19, 2020 at 2:20 pm

      If you read the piece closely, you’ll find that what it’s saying is that you have to pay close attention to when something is not caused by you and make sure you don’t take responsibility for it — because if you take responsibility for something you didn’t cause, then you’re basically reverting to a victim mentality (this time, you’re a victim of your own thinking/self). This article is for people who practice self reflection and put themselves at the cause of their experience.


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