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Women and the Workplace

Sexual Harassment: What One of the #Goodguys Did for Me

Sexual harassment.

Mobile, Alabama, is full of pink azaleas come spring.
I moved away from Mobile, Alabama, in 1988 to attend college at the University of Alabama. Before I left, I worked as an office worker and a part-time “runner” at a law firm in old Mobile. The office had a few lawyers and a legal secretary, and I believe the name of the firm was Patterson, McCleave, and Shields. We worked in an old house...
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Is It Okay to Cut Off My Annoying Relatives for the Holidays? Here’s How To Do It

If only I could tell you, "Sure! Cut off Uncle Seamus and never talk to him again. Raise
your eggnog and laugh heartily at the joy of not having a stressful family interaction this year. Wahoooo!!!!"

Nope. I can't tell you to do that.

Life doesn't work that way, does it? There are no easy fixes, no scissors that we can use to cut the cord to a job we hate, a neighbor who annoys us, or a...
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5 Quick Tips To Manage All the Chaos and Anger Out There Right Now

Here's to peaceful places

This is a weird and emotional time in our country. People are really upset. Or, people are upset that people are upset. It is crazy-making for both sides.

What to do about it?

The first way to manage angry feelings toward others is to try to get in touch with how they are processing things. The old adage, “Put yourself in someone else’s shoes” still holds true.

Say you believe that the apocalypse is coming....
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The Importance of the Goodbye

peace in a palmetto tree
Much has been written and sung of goodbyes. I recently said goodbye to a city and life that I once loved in Chicago. More than 20 years of accumulated life was consolidated into a moving truck and sent down the road. I followed.
In the beginning, when this all came about, I avoided the goodbyes. If I didn’t say goodbye, maybe I could avoid strong feelings of loss. I fantasized that...
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Wish I Could Sleep

Once you stop sleeping, everything changes.
Then begins a cascade of side effects — irritability, low energy, changes in eating habits, maybe weight gain, difficulty with concentration, alertness, memory. You can begin to look old before your time, and you may get sick more often. 
Sleep is extremely important to optimal physical and mental function.
We women lose a lot of sleep and for many reasons. 
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