Anxiety, Depression and Mental Health: 11 Ways to Be Less Stressed During the Workday

Life is stressful. For everyone. But when your mental health suffers, it feels like life is harder for you than for others. There are days where even getting out of bed is difficult. And where handling daily stressors feels impossible. 

For many of us whose mental health suffers, we’ve found tricks for getting us through our days. Ways to help us cope. To help us feel less stressed. So here are mine. In hopes they will alleviate some of the stress from your day too.

Complex Post-traumatic Stress Disorder

Depression and Self-care: How America’s Got Talent Is Getting Me Through My Winter Blues

I’m currently watching Season 14 of America’s Got Talent (AGT). I don’t know when the season actually started. Or even if it’s over. I have a hard time watching things when they’re on. I need to watch them when I’m in the mood to.

I live in the Midwest. Where the weather isn’t ideal some of the time. And if we have a cold, snowy, gray winter, like we do this year, it can feel like a lot of the time. I knew I needed something that would uplift me. Lighten my mood. So I turned to AGT.


PTSD, SPD and Fight-or-flight Response: 20 Tips for Surviving in the Workplace

Being in the workplace when you have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and sensory processing disorder (SPD) can feel close to impossible. Not only are there triggers everywhere, but you’re expected to remain professional while enduring them. Going against the constant self-care that you need. Causing frequent bouts of dissociation and meltdowns. But there are ways to survive in the workplace even when you suffer. 

Complex Post-traumatic Stress Disorder

PTSD, Fight-or-flight and Relationships: When Being Triggered Makes You Difficult to Be Around

When you suffer from PTSD, it often appears as if you’re not okay. Because typically, you’re not. Whatever environment you’re in is probably triggering you. Whether you recognize it or not. So you’re either distracted or on edge. Ready to explode. And when others are around, it becomes difficult for them to be around you. Shows them the darkest side of you. The primitive side that only knows how to fight or flee.

But PTSD never goes away. And neither do the unhealthy thoughts and unexpected triggers that come along with it. Leaving those of us who suffer, and those who love us, left to deal. 


Anxiety, Depression and Self-Care: 10 Tips for Journaling to Improve Mental Health 

Capturing your thoughts in writing can seem daunting at first. Trust me, I’ve been a writer for most of my life and the blank page can still feel intimidating. And putting your thoughts and feelings in writing can feel uncomfortable. Because confronting your thoughts and feelings can be difficult. But writing doesn’t have to be painful. In fact, it’s one of the best forms of therapy we have. It requires no one else. You can do it for yourself. And by yourself. For writing doesn’t need anyone to be present but you. 


PTSD, SPD and Anxiety: 20 Ways to Regulate Your Nervous System When Flying 

I’ve recently suffered recurring episodes of PTSD. So I haven’t been on an airplane in two years. Which is probably the longest I’ve gone since I was a teenager. For I love to travel. And even though my PTSD, SPD and anxiety make it extremely difficult to travel, I know that standing on the beach and breathing in the ocean air will make it all worth it. Or at least that’s what I keep telling myself.


Neurodiversity and Mental Health: Best Questions on Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) from 2019

Looking back at 2019, I received dozens of questions on the topics I write about. And while I am not a medical professional, I’ve been dealing with my disorders, specifically sensory processing disorder (SPD), for a few decades, which has allowed me to understand all the complexities that having a neurological disorder brings.

So while you should always consult your team of experts when it comes to dealing with your own mental health, here are the top questions I received and my responses to them. In hopes that some of the conversations I've been blessed to have will help you or a loved one heal. 


Anxiety, Depression and Self-care: Sticking to a Schedule to Survive the Holidays

With the holidays less than one week away, I am aware of the need to schedule my time. Because the holidays are difficult for me, I find that if I plan everything, I have a schedule to follow when the hard times hit. And it's imperative to my mental health that I stick to my schedule. Militantly. Like I have no choice. Like if I don’t do it, someone will get hurt. Like my life depends on it. 

Complex Post-traumatic Stress Disorder

Mental Health and Downtime: Scheduling Projects to Practice Self-care During the Holiday Season 

I finally finished grading finals for the semester. Which feels bittersweet. For while I am grateful to have time off before the next semester begins, it’s over the holidays — historically, a dangerous time for me. Not only can the holidays be triggering, depressing and exhausting, but there’s a lot of unscheduled time. Downtime. And having downtime is the hardest time for me to deal. For without structure, it’s as if my brain and my body don’t know what to do. Which can be destructive. To others and to myself.