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Narcissists and Gift Giving

When I was a child, every year my mother and I did Operation Christmas Child. It was such fun shopping for things a little girl in need would love to receive on Christmas morning. Cool little toys, a tiny doll, crayons, coloring books, toiletries, hair clips. Together, Mother and I packed the box tightly and shipped it to North Carolina. It was a lesson in giving that I've never forgotten.

Ever since the Magi brought gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh to...
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Childhood Sexual Abuse

Go No Contact, Sh*t and Get Off the Pot

Why haven't you gone No Contact with your narcissistic relatives yet? Why!?! WHY!?!

Why are you still speaking to the mother who projected her vices onto you, yelled, screamed and punished you for what she (and your siblings) actually did, and made your childhood a living Hell?

Why are you still chatting with the father who groomed you, molested, sexually abused, raped you?

Why are you still celebrating holidays with siblings who make snide comments and in-laws...
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