2 thoughts on “The Picayune Judgmentalism of Narcissists

  • July 12, 2019 at 3:13 am

    Yep, I got this from a narc ex *and* from a couple of narc “friends.” 😛 Their little critiques of everything I did still rattle around in my brain years later. The other day, a friend posted a criticism on Facebook that sounded like one of theirs, and it’s been triggering me for days. 😛

  • August 6, 2019 at 10:03 pm

    Oh, my goodness. This is exactly how I grew up, and at 54 yrs old, the first thing my 80+ yr old parents say to me during a conversation is, “Do you have a job yet? Do the girls (grandchildren) have jobs?
    And yes… my mom is a German workaholic. Every feeling you described, I feel. Thank you for telling your story. I’m not alone in the experience.


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