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  • September 16, 2019 at 2:21 am

    I have to thank you for your bravery and your integrity, THANK YOU! I have in three years been introduced to narrcacistic behavior and looking for answers found an article on narcissism. I could have wrote it?! I have a story and a true one as I believe the truth will set me free as far as I can’t let a no consequence for such things go on by like a a buzzing bee looking for nectar buzzes on by..oh hell no is kinda how I feel after the pain I was PURPOSELY inflicted with as a choice to do so by this person. I have learned that rich or made professional educated narcissists with no worries no Bill’s & have been giving to family and made to look as giving towards others was always ALWAYS AT THE CORE FOR THEIR BENEFIT. THEY DO THE LEAST TO GET IT DONE AND IF IT COST THEM MORE AS TIME OR EFFORT OR MONEY THEY WILL DISPOSE OF YOU QUICK AS THEY FIND A PERSON WHO WILL REQUIRE LESS OF ALL MENTIONED TO ACHIEVE THEIR FIX&KEEP IT HIDDEN USING YOU TO SHADE THE LIGHT THAT WILL EXPOSE WHO AND WHAT THEY REALLY ARE ALL ABOUT. I THOUGHT NOBODY WILL BELIEVE ME SO I BEGAN RECORDING EVERYTHING AND EVERY TIME I WAS ON THERE TURF REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU WANT TO THINK OR TRUST OR DOUBT ON IT BEING NESSASRY…I LEARNED I SHOULD HAVE BEEN RECORDING THIS BUT WASN’T &IT WAS LOST TO MY WORD VS. THIERS. I BEGAN RECORDING NEVER MISSING . SD CARDS WERE EXPENSIVE BUT WORTH THEIR WEIGHT IN GOLD! I INFORMED THEM I WAS ALWAYS RECORDING NEVER TO THINK I WASN’T. SAID IT REPEADITIV FOR A MONTH. REMINDED THEM AT TIMES HOW THAT’S GOING TO LOOK ONCE HEARD. THEY CAN’T HELP THEMSELVES! I WOULD LOVE TO TELL MY STORY ….I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND ONE THING ? HOW THEY GOT SO SMART IT IS LIKE THEY ARE ONE STEP AHEAD EVERY TIME? I’M LUCKY I’M THE OPPOSITE OF THE NARC I SPEAK OF…I HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE? LITERALLY NOTHING .I LEARNED LING AGO ITS ALL JUST STUFF &WAS SURPRISED WITH HOW LITTLE ONE CAN GET BY WITH HAPPILY . THEY COULD NOT TAKE ANYTHING ELSE FROM ME EXCEPT THE LOVE I WAS ALREADY CHOOSING TO GIVE THEM UNTIL I REALIZED UNCONDITIONAL LOVE WON’T SAVE THEM BUT HELPS YOU OUT WHEN YOU REALIZE WHAT’S HAPPENING.IT HELPS KNOWING THAT YOU’RE HEART WAS IN THE RIGHT PLACE & YOU CAN WALK FREE OF GUILT WHEN LOOKING BACK BECAUSE YOU DID EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER BEFORE SHUTING THE DOOR. PAIN IS GREATER BECAUSE THEY CAN’T EVER OFFER YOU ANY RELIEF OR COMFORT OR CONCERN, BUT YOU CAN GET SOME BY EXPOSING THEM IF YOU GOT NO SKELETONS IN YOUR CLOSET THEN EXPOSE THEM! THEIR IMAGE IS EVERYTHING.RELIZE EVERYTHING THEY SAY IS A LIE THAT IS TO GAIN THEIR NEED & WANTS. THEY ARE A WALKING ACADEMY AWARD. &THERE IS USUALLY ONE MORE THAT’S WELL KNOWN TO YOU AS A MIMI ME SO TO SPEAK WITH SOCIOPATHIC TENDENCIES OR NARCISSISTIC. THEY NEED A CATALYST LIKE FIRE. YOU AND YOUR GROUP OR ATLEAST ONE IN IT …IN MY SITUATION AT LEAST . I NEVER NEW THIS KIND OF CANCER WAS PLEGGING PEOPLE. WHAT THEY GAIN AT OTHERS EXPENSE IS PREMEDITATED ATTEMPTS TO MURDER ANOTHERS WILL OR LOVE OR WAY THEY SEE THINGS WARPING THEN DAMAGING THEM IN LIFE WITH OUR BASIC BUT MOST FUNDAMENTAL HUMAN SENSE THE OTHERS AS A WHOLE ARE GIVEN AT BIRTH SO WE AS HUMANS CAN LEARN TO TRUST…IF THEIR TRULY IS A ROOT TO THIS TREE IT NEEDS TO BE CHOPPED DOWN. THOSE THAT CANNOT LISTEN MUST FEEL? BUT WTF NARCISSISTIC DON’T FEEL ANYTHING BUT SHAME IN A SENSE OF FEELING SORRY FOR THEMSELVES WHEN THE TRUTH THAT SET YOU FREE SHAMES THEM FROM BEING ABLE TO BE AROUND THE SAME INDIVIDUALS THAT NOW KNOW THE REAL TRUTH . I SUGGEST WAITING ON YOUR EXPOSING THEM AS TO NOT LOOK LIKE A CRAZY HURT CRY BABY FAMILY MEMBER EX FRIEND OR PARTNER…LIKE THE SONG SAYS “TIME IS ON MY SIDE , YES IT IS!” TRUTH IS TIME NEITHER CAN LIE AND ARE CONSTANT. AS ALWAYS TALK WITH GOD THE TRUTH THE WAY THE LIGHT, ALWAYS AND DAILY HE IS ALWAYS LISTENING & WHEN YOU THINK NO ANSWER IS LEFT HE KNOWS JUST THE ANSWER..GIVE IT TO HIM WHAT’S TO LOSE? HE OUR HEAVENLY FATHER HAS NEVER LET ME DOWN. IF WE WERNT EXPOSED TO THIS PROBLEM WE WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO GIVE IT A NAME SO CONTINUE TO GIVE IT YOUR VOICE . THANK YOU FOR YOUR PAGE O LINE YOU WILL BE HELPFUL TO MORE THAN ONE BUT ONE IS GOOD I THINK IF ITS JUST ONE THAT IT REACHES I’M HAPPY. CONSIQUENC OR NOT I HAVE TO TELL ON HIM AS HE CAN’T? BULL YES HE CAN !CHOICE FREE WILL….ITS JUST THEY GOT SELFISH & NO CONSEQUENCE. THEY ARE GOOD TO MAKE IT LOOK LIKE YOUR THE BAD GUY! ( THAT’S THEIR MOTTO! I WAS TOLD “YOU DA BAD GUY’ WHEN I WAS PUT INTO A EVENT I KNEW NOTHING ABOUT WHAT WAS GOING ON BUT THEY PUT ME IN IT & SAID I WAS GOING TO DO SOMETHING I WAS NOT EVER AWARE OR THERE TO EVER DO ANY OF IT? THEY BELIEVED HIM TOO!

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