Archives for January, 2018
Sexual Abuse: Justice Came in A Dream
When the #metoo movement began, I applauded it! But I didn't really think I had anything to #metoo about. When you're brainwashed to "Live Symbolically" as if life is perfect so you only react as if life is perfect, a lot of #metoo's can happen — and you're too ashamed to flinch.
But as time went on, I realized there'd been a lot of #metoo moments in my life I'd blamed myself for. Memories surfaced of...
But as time went on, I realized there'd been a lot of #metoo moments in my life I'd blamed myself for. Memories surfaced of...
Narcissistic Brainwashing: How Larry Nassar Thinks
All your life, you think one way. Your family is fine. Normal. Apparently, love hurts. But you stay because your family convinced you that strangers would hurt, abuse and rape you.
Then one memorable day, you discovered narcissism. And everything changed. Everything. You rethought every relationship, every event, everything your family ever said or did. Your isolation. All your gut instincts, intuitions and hunches.
Suddenly, you realize that everything you thought you knew is exactly the opposite. You were brainwashed....
Then one memorable day, you discovered narcissism. And everything changed. Everything. You rethought every relationship, every event, everything your family ever said or did. Your isolation. All your gut instincts, intuitions and hunches.
Suddenly, you realize that everything you thought you knew is exactly the opposite. You were brainwashed....
Bad Babies: Of Dr. Dobson, Narcissists and their Demanding, Disappointing Infants
" self-centered and demanding baby daughter." That's how my dad introduced me to his readership in Chapter 3 of his book. And that's the kind of bullsh*t my narcissists regularly spewed when they fondly reminisced about that cute, smart, demanding, angry, willful, strong-willed sinner...
Going Rogue After Isolation: A Control Source for the Turpins, Cults and Narcissists
What do cults, narcissists and the infamous Turpins all have in common? They isolate their victims. And not just physically. Intellectually. Relationally. Spiritually. Emotionally. Every way.
Why? To create a very limited reality of their own design so they can keep you stupid, naïve and thus, controllable. To make sure you don't see how normal people live in case you should yearn for it and, horrors, slip their shackles.
Why? To create a very limited reality of their own design so they can keep you stupid, naïve and thus, controllable. To make sure you don't see how normal people live in case you should yearn for it and, horrors, slip their shackles.
The Turpin Adult Hostages: Are They to Blame for NOT Speaking Up?
"Thank you for your email" wrote the Chief of Police in his Wednesday email to me, "The recent incident involving the Turpin family in California is certainly a tragic [false imprisonment] personal experiences that you shared in your email obviously had...
The Turpin Children: Fighting the Misconceptions About Them, Homeschooling and their Future
Unless you've been homeschooled, isolated and held against your will — it can be easy to make some wrong assumptions about the Turpin children who were famously rescued from their parents David and Louise Turpin this week. There is a tone of surprise by...
Smiling Devils – The Infamous Turpins and their Shackled Children
Nothing makes me more furious than when one human being holds another human being against their will — whether the victim realizes it or not, regardless of whether their shackles are physical or mental, emotional, spiritual or financial. I'm convinced it happens much more than we realize. Hell, it happened to me! It may've happened to you. Almost weekly, the DailyMail runs a horrific story about a forgotten person(s) discovered in a shed, a basement, a filthy bedroom.
David...
David...
Realizing Your Dream Life after Narcissistic Abuse (Pt 2 of 2)
As I wrote in Part 1, "Our narcissists defined us as a person wrongly and pressed us into a lifestyle that was inauthentic to us. They scoffed at our dreams and mocked/appropriated our creativity. In the end, we crawled into our shells and gave up on living, really living!"
This is our big chance to jettison all of that, step back and design a life that would make us really happy. Maybe even your "dream life"!
This is Your Dream Life!
Grab your journal...
This is our big chance to jettison all of that, step back and design a life that would make us really happy. Maybe even your "dream life"!
This is Your Dream Life!
Grab your journal...
Re-Defining Your Life After Narcissistic Abuse (Pt 1 of 2)
Every morning you wake up, switch on NBC's Today show, eat the same ol' breakfast, go to work, run errands, come home, eat supper, watch more television and go to bed. Wash, rinse, repeat.
But does it truly make you happy? Does it actually reflect...
But does it truly make you happy? Does it actually reflect...
Rejecting the Helpful Narcissist (Who Always Knows Best)
"But I made it better," said narcissist Sheldon Cooper to Leonard on The Big Bang Theory, referring to the smartphone app they were developing together.
"I don’t want it better," Leonard sneered. "I want it my way." And he was right!
That episode of TBBT brought back all the memories. The helpful person, perhaps a full-blown narcissist, perhaps a covert narcissist, who always wanted to be involved, give suggestions, dream up possibilities, make recommendations, and lend an unsolicited helping hand.
Perhaps...
"I don’t want it better," Leonard sneered. "I want it my way." And he was right!
That episode of TBBT brought back all the memories. The helpful person, perhaps a full-blown narcissist, perhaps a covert narcissist, who always wanted to be involved, give suggestions, dream up possibilities, make recommendations, and lend an unsolicited helping hand.
Perhaps...
