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Speedy the Narcissist and the Funeral Meddling

Once upon a time, in a kingdom far, far away, there lived a narcissist. We'll call him Speedy. You've met Speedy before. He lived a fairly colorful life, full of conflict. He meddled with everything and , neighbors, family.

Now, Speedy had an acquaintance we'll call Fred. And one day, Fred died. It was very, very sad.

But I'm getting ahead of myself in the story!

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Narcissists Say “Mistakes Must Not Be Made”

"I'm sorry. I'm so sorry!" How many times have you said "I'm sorry" about a trifle. Forgetting something. Dropping something. Making a loud noise. Coughing. Sneezing. Getting sick. Just being human. Existing. But you're sorry. Very sorry.

I know you say "I'm sorry" all the time because you've told me so in comments, emails and Facebook posts. And I'm the same way. I apologize about everything. Could this be a sign of living in a narcissistic home!?!

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Portraits of Five Narcissists

You can't tell a narcissist just by looking. There's no one-size-fits-all model for narcissism. Although the underlying dynamics are the same, narcissists are as diverse and unique as non-narcissists. Oh, narcissists may all think in the same ways and even say similar things. But...
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