Reality makes and unmakes itself in a seamless metamorphosis of ceasing and arising.
Reality does and undoes itself from a moment to a moment to a moment, ad infinitum.
Becoming and unbecoming are not two.
Becoming and unbecoming are the same process of cosmic self-renewal.
But we tend to lose sight of that: while we yearn for change, while we yearn to become what we want to become, we often fear ceasing to be what we have become, what we already are.
Recognize: any story of unbecoming is at the same time a story of becoming.
Renew yourself with each conscious choice.
Unmake yourself to remake yourself.
Undo yourself to redo yourself!