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You are Triumphing Over the Growing Pains

roofI live in a neighborhood with lots of growing pains.

Because of this, I now know it takes two full days (if they start early on the morning of the 1st day) to tear a whole house down and cart it away.

Since they are hard at work putting up six new houses on my street alone, I will soon find out approximately how long it takes to build a new house where the old house used to be.

But what I already know is that it makes quite a racket while they are doing it!

There are the ground smoothers. And the concrete pourers. And the wood haulers. And the paint sprayers. And of course the loud (blaring) tunes from somebody’s boom box (apparently this is a required part of every “new home building” process).

While it is happening it is irritating, messy, lengthy, erratic, and seemingly endless.

But when the process finally does conclude, there is a beautiful shiny new HOME where a flimsy condemned shack used to stand.

Life is like this (or at least I think it is – usually I’m too busy complaining during the “growing pains” phases to really bookmark the actual specifics).

We endure the growing pains – somehow – and then, one day and just when we least expect it, voila!

Lovely, new, shining, and oh-so-proud – we behold ourselves.

Just like that, we have triumphed over even the worst of our own growing pains, and boy-oh-boy is it ever worth it!

Today’s Takeaway: What is your typical reaction during “growing pains” periods of your life? Do you complain (like I often do)? Do you make a conscious effort to step back and look at the bigger picture to see a transformation in process? Some other way? What helps you most to endure during the “tearing down” and then the “building process”?

p.s. This post is from January’s “Good News for Eating Disorders Recovery” ezine. To read the full edition click HERE

Home construction image available from Shutterstock.

You are Triumphing Over the Growing Pains

Shannon Cutts

Parrot, tortoise & box turtle mama. Writer. Author. Songwriter. Champion of all people (and things) recovered and recovering.

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Cutts, S. (2019). You are Triumphing Over the Growing Pains. Psych Central. Retrieved on August 10, 2020, from


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