I decided to share the full serenity prayer with you as we begin a new week.
” God grant me the serenity, to accept the things I cannot change. Courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time, accepting hardship as the pathway to peace. Taking, as He did, the sinful world as it is, not as I would have it. Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His will. That I may be reasonably happy in this life, and supremely happy with Him forever in the next.”
It can be a challenge at times when we lose control. We think we are placed at a disadvantage and think that things may not get better because we feel clueless. What we tend to forget is that although we cannot control each and every situation, person or experience, we can make a great effort to control our responses. I know, easier said than done at times. But practice encourages habit.
We recite the first five lines of this serenity prayer at the end of our groups and I often encourage clients to think about the things in their lives that bring frustration because they have no control and also to think of at least one thing that they do have control over. This reminder helps to reinforce the words repeated in the serenity prayer and makes it a little more personal for each client.
What are some people, situations or experiences that you have no control over?
What do you have control over?
I hope that these words can touch your life today.