A wise therapist, many years ago said to me: "Well, it's quite simple Leslie. Your picker is broken. Your antenna isn't working."

OK, I'll bite.

I paid $100 to the  nice lady with the PhD then spent the next 20 + years trying to fix my damn Picker.

And here I am now, on Psych Central, asking my kindred spirits WHY, oh why do we keep choosing partners that are not healthy/not a great match/ or downright ...
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