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Rebuild Your Relationship After The Affair Is Over

After Affair Is Over, Try To Rebuild Your Relationship

If you or your partner has cheated, when possible, it is always best to reconcile and keep your legitimate relationship together. This is especially true when you have children.

Certainly, if the philanderer amongst you is not remorseful or has not ended his relationship with his/her paramour, reconciliation is impossible. Keeping your legitimate relationship together under such circumstances is relationship suicide.

In my experience, most people who cheat regret having done so and sincerely want to repair the relationship damage they have caused. Although doing so is difficult, with the right effort and with the help of a properly trained relationship specialist it can be achieved.

Keeping your relationship together is important. There is a great deal of research that shows individuals in a committed, satisfying, and long-lasting relationships do better than individuals who are alone or who have multiple partners.

People in happy, long-lasting relationships are on average wealthier and healthier. This has been proven by many studies conducted by qualified researchers over a span of many years.

The full benefit of living in a committed relationship is actualized only when the relationship is happy, loving, and satisfying.

Being a Committed Relationship and Marriage Builder is a very noble enterprise. This is especially true when you have children who suffer terribly when their birth parents split up.

After the family breakup, children are often then put into a blended family which is notoriously difficult at being harmonious and good for everyone.

Yes, being in a blended family is a good thing. However, to make it work for everyone the family often requires guidance from a qualified professional and hard work by each member.

Certainly, I recognize that there are times when divorce is not only legitimate but necessary. And should you be in this unfortunate situation you should not feel guilty at all because of what you have had to do.

I am encouraging here only those individuals, who with the right effort and the right help, can pull their relationship back together and make it healthy and happy. If you are in this category of couples, I encourage you to make every effort and be a Committed Relationship and Marriage Builder.

After the affair is over, rebuilding your committed relationship is possible. Countless couples have done so in the past, and you too can do it now.

Need help personal and private help to rebuild after the affair is over? Go to my infidelity website and learn more: Infidelity help by relationship expert Abe Kass MA RSW RMFT CCHT.

The following infographic highlights many of the benefits of being in a marriage or committed relationship:

 

 

Rebuild Your Relationship After The Affair Is Over

Abe Kass

Abe Kass, M.A., R.S.W., R.M.F.T. is a registered marriage and family therapist, a registered social worker, a certified clinical hypnotherapist, and the author of more than a dozen books designed to help couples and individuals live a more loving, more satisfying life.


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APA Reference
Kass, A. (2019). Rebuild Your Relationship After The Affair Is Over. Psych Central. Retrieved on May 27, 2019, from https://blogs.psychcentral.com/infidelity/2019/01/rebuild-after-cheating/

 

Last updated: 28 Jan 2019
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