3 thoughts on “Boundaries, Blaming, and Enabling in Codependent Relationships

  • March 15, 2019 at 7:59 pm

    Boundaries are great and necessary for couples to maintain barriers for when problems arise!the essence of love becomes the major factor which contributes to the future of the relationship,how do we react in the hardest times?🤗

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  • March 15, 2019 at 11:19 pm

    I can see this in my husband. People will ask him to do things which they are completely able to do themselves. He won’t say no to them. Then after he has done this first “task” somebody has gotten angry or upset so he then tries to pacify them and feels responsible for their feelings. I’ve tried to tell him that none of these things are his responsibility but he will always justify his actions as “helping somebody out”!! It drives me crazy…lol.

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  • March 17, 2019 at 9:11 am

    How does a codependant go about making their “resonsibility” list ?

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