Starting sparks and setting wildfire fights by hasty & thoughtless speech can be avoided. Free speech and abusive speech, in my opinion, is not the same speech. I was reading an article about certain words to avoid if you want good customer service. Interesting. It makes sense to me to be kind to those who help me.
How about avoiding abusive speech that destroys relationships? And words that can damage a kid’s esteem or a spouse’s or partner’s trust?
When down and depressed, it is hard for me to not hurt others when I am hurting. It can be challenging for all of us, at stressful times of suffering, to think before we speak and act. Remember the wise old adage: “no wood and the fire goes out!”
My wife likes me to take a ‘spiritual’ perspective on things. Family fights prevention aka wildfire-fight prevention that works:
“A mild answer turns away rage, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”—Prov. 15:1.