4 thoughts on “Improve Your Marriage by Having an Affair…With Your Spouse

  • August 15, 2012 at 11:43 pm

    I admire your enthusiasm. All couples over 55 should see the movie “Hope Springs” with Tommy Lee Jones and Meryl Streep. The movie and your article are on the same page.

  • May 21, 2015 at 2:01 pm

    Great Ideas, but unfortunatelly it does not work that well.

    The core of seduction and affair is that these are 2 strangers involved.
    This brings completly different chemistry to the stage. All those scanning looks, not asked questions, trying to decode mind of other person, and so on…
    Never works if people are merried for some time already.

    It is nice to mimic this and probably a lot of fun – highly recommended,
    But “dating” Your spouse is not a real date as You know each other. It will be a nice romantic dinner or coffee ONLY.

    Tried multiple times in marriage and outside and real stranger date and seduction is completly different category due to chemistry of unknown.

  • July 28, 2020 at 6:32 pm

    I actually had a cheating sex dream and when I woke up I was thinking about how much I want to feel my mans body like when we first met. Those butterflies, the sex, the tingling all over.

    I told him I wanted to meet him in a dark alley and just make out like we were strangers this morning and he said he just had the same fantasy last night. So we are gonna try it.

    It’s insane because we broke up for a few weeks a few weeks back and when we saw each other again the sex was full blown amazing. The tension was great.

    • July 30, 2020 at 11:53 pm

      Alanna: Thanks for your message – sometimes when we miss someone we really turn the volume up on the desire for them – Wishing you the best -Suzanne


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