5 thoughts on “To My Husband’s Ex’s – Thank You for Dumping this Wonderful Man

  • December 28, 2017 at 6:43 pm

    Today I am a single man and living in the woods with many hrs of reflection of the greatness this world has to offer! I had to go throughout 19 yrs of abuse and I ended up becoming a 3rd Degree Black Belt and also studying yoga and medatation intensely for my ex thought I was hiding money from her after both my parents died within 5 weeks of each other. ( Like that wasn’t bad enough) I was sent to jail for not being able to afford to pay 15 times the amount of money that I could. I was sent to solitary confinement for weeks and the had to stay in general population for 3 1/2 – 4 years the hate she had for me was crazy and the lawyers ate it up till every penny I had was gone. So they left me in jail. I really didn’t ever think I would get out! She took every single penny I had and I had to go to jail in a seperated state and they the Judge would not let me go home and get cloths and bath and change so incould get a good job! Idirimg the 2008 2009 yrs was when everything for me went bust I was freakkng out I bad a large business to run and had to be with my parents and the hate from her was, bad very very bad. I learned tto love in a way that only the spirits that had been there before me could I learned to forgive and become strong physically and as mental as I could. There is a lot more to the is story but I’m cutting the true agony out. I started to understand that it would only end if I loved myself more then any one else then I could help others do the same! I can tell you this that been the only guy I know that’s not gay that hugged 100’s of inmates for the love of God I shared and helped them with! To this day some 15 yrs later I forgive her for she does not know who she is and I have forgiven all the people that left me to rot in jail and I forgave all the people that stold 100’s of thousands of dollars. For it really by finding true love and compassion that you begin to see that there is a life out there I missed the birth of my 3 grand children but it is not forgotten but I do forgive them! It has taken 7 yrs for my children to talk to me and other family members make fun of me! But I know they do not understand living in a cell and being feed by murders and thieves they can not posable know what it’s Ike to have your car destroyed by police to spite me for my love was always and is still as strog as ever before and it’s growing stronger! For this story is true I would stake my life upon it! I know that when people blame or hate others there pain will intenseify and they end up taking from themselves and the other ones they love around them! So I have read my story some what for we are all different it would be to boring if we were all the same I got to say my story and for me today that is a blessing so that maybe someone out there will not hate but learn to praise the good ignore the bad and become a peace on earth that will now be rekenoned with! I thank you for letting me spend this precious moment with you and I’m sure your going to here more about the other parts of my life! As we part find a true love in your heart and bring it fourth to share with all you know and all that you shall meet! Because we really do need it! Thank you again! Good Nue for now!! I have left my comment here for cleansing if you would like to contact me that’s fine and if you want to write about me and say things good or bad that’s fine! There is something I want you all to have and that is true Love and compassion for yourselves and please learn to forgive! Don’t forget but learn to forgive! OK Bye now! I love you all!!

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    • December 29, 2017 at 1:45 am

      Thank you for sharing your story. You’ve suffered terrible loss and injustices and I am sorry. It’s wonderful that you have found strength in your faith and through all the horrors in your life you are able to not only forgive your ex but go forward to live in love with an open heart. You are truly a good man.

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  • December 29, 2017 at 10:52 am

    Will we hear from the author again when Rhys betrays her?

    What will she have to say to the ex then?

    It happens.

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    • December 29, 2017 at 5:43 pm

      I’m sorry your life has made you so bitter and cynical. If he didn’t cheat on his ex, he won’t cheat on me. Good character will out.

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  • December 30, 2017 at 6:07 am

    Thank you so immensely for speaking out for men. Thanks for giving love to once rejected. And you know what? I don’t know your man but one thing is sure and you know that:he will never let you down. You’re one in a million and no man will ever hurt a woman of your type. Blessings always. Love y’all

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