2 thoughts on “When You Hold On Too Tightly

  • November 12, 2017 at 4:38 pm

    A thought provoking article. Co-dependency traits perhaps? I’ve been told all of the above and had to go through a crisis to realise that I had some work to do in lots of areas of my life. It’s been an interesting journey that’s for sure.

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  • March 9, 2020 at 3:00 pm

    A VERY VERY GOOD ARTICLE THAT PROVIDES SOME GREAT POINTERS THAT CAN HELP PEOPLE IN MOVING FORWARDS TO MORE CONFIDENCE IN RELATIONSHIPS & LIFE ALIKE , I ESPECIALLY LIKE THE PART ABOUT CONCENTRATING ON WHAT YOU DO HAVE TOGETHER ( OR ON YOUR OWN TOO ) , RATHER THAN WHAT YOU WANT OR DONT HAVE EI ; MORE TIME TOGETHER / TO BE ABLE TO ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY ECT – NOW IN MY YOUNGER YEARS IVE BEEN ON BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE IN RELATIONSHIPS – IVE BEEN THE JEALOUS ONE ( BUT FOR VERY GOOD REASONS ) & I HAVE ALSO BEEN THE SUFFOCATED ONE & WELL , BOTH ARE MISERABLE PLACES TO BE IN WITH FRAUGHT NERVES & A MIND IN CONSTANT TURMOIL … NOT BEING ABLE TO TRUST IS A MISERABLE EXISTENCE & ONE SURE FIRE WAY TO KILL A RELATIONSHIP & ON THE OTHER HAND , BEING THE ONE WHO ISNT TRUSTED WITH A POSSESSIVE , CONTROLLING PARTNER WHO QUESTIONS YOUR EVERY MOVEMENT IS JUST AS MISERABLE AN EXISTENCE – IF YOU HAVE NO REASON TO DISTRUST YOUR PARTNER & ITS EXES OR OTHER PEOPLE THAT HAVE MADE YOU THINK & FEEL THAT WAY , PLZZZ GET ALL THE HELP YOU CAN & REALLY WORK ON HEALING FROM PAST NEGATIVE EXPERIENCES , IT TAKES TIME & EFFORT- A LOT , BUT WELL WORTH IT BECAUSE UNTIL THEN WHICHEVER SIDE OF THE FENCE YOU END – UP YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY UNTIL YOU DO SO & IF SOMEONE HAS TREATED YOU SO BAD ( LIKE MY EX ) THAT YOU WERE MADE TO FEEL SELF CONSCIOUS / UNWORTHY , LIKE ME RIGHT NOW , YOU NEED TO FIND OUT HOW TO SELF LOVE , FROM WITHIN … LOVE YOURSELF FIRST SO YOU HAVE THE VERY BEST VERSION OF YOU TO OFFER TO SOMEONE ELSE – THE BEST OF LUCK IN LIFE & LOVE EVERYONE – KEEP AT IT ITS AN ONGOING BATTLE TILL YOU HEAL / LEARN …

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