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Conversation Topics To Strengthen Your Relationship

Topics to talk about that will make your relationship stronger

As a relationship counselor, I have found that conversation is key to establishing a healthy relationship. Consider that best part of your relationship. More than likely, the memory you are holding is one that highlights communication. In my counseling practice, I utilize time with couples to understand ways to improve connection and address issues through communication.

The strategies that I touch on are the same that I teach in the Relationship Building Course CLICK HERE to explore how it can help your relationship.

Before you begin to read over the conversation topics, make one commitment.

Make it a priority to commit time to this exercise. The important factor to remember is that you are working to create a meaningful experience while showing your significant other that they are valued, needed, wanted, and loved.

  1. What is your best skill?
  2. What do you like most about your life?
  3. What do you like least about the city/town you live in?
  4. Do you consider yourself a leader or a follower?
  5. What is the most spontaneous thing you have ever done?
  6. How would your best friend describe you?
  7. What do you look for in a best friend?
  8. What are your career goals in life?
  9. What are your personal goals in life?
  10. If you could have lunch with anyone, dead or alive, who would it be and what would you talk about?
  11. What are the top three websites you visit?
  12. What’s your favorite thing to do on your phone or smart device?
  13. What is your morning routine like?
  14. What is your favorite childhood memory?
  15. What was your favorite childhood book?
  16. What is something about you that you don’t share with a lot of people?
  17. What’s your favorite food on a cold day and why?
  18. What’s your favorite food on a hot day and why?
  19. If you had one superpower what would it be?
  20. My favorite holiday memory is?
  21. If there could be extra hours in a day, what would you do with it?
  22. If you won the lottery, what would you do with the money?
  23. If you had to be stuck in a deserted island, who would you choose to have with you?
  24. If you had to live without one of your five senses, which would it be and why?
  25. What would you do all day without internet?
  26. If you could go back in time, during what period of life would you live in?
  27. If you were the opposite gender for one day, what would you do that day?
  28. What is your favorite thing to do on a rainy day?
  29. After a long day, what do you prefer doing?
  30. If you had to plan your ideal vacation, what would it be like?
  31. If you had to go backpacking, where would you go?
  32. What’s your favorite thing to do when you are at the beach and why?
  33. Do you have a big or small family?
  34. Who do you most admire in your family and why?
  35. Who do you most admire dead or alive and why?
  36. What is the first thing that you notice in someone you are attracted to?
  37. What is your favorite movie and why?
  38. If you could play any professional sport, what would it be and why?
  39. If you could play any instrument, what would it be and why?
  40. If you had to choose one talent to be great at, what would you pick?
  41. What was your worst restaurant experience?
  42. What’s your favorite color and why?
  43. Do you believe that everyone deserves forgiveness?
  44. Do you ever think about life on Facebook?
  45. What are your morning rituals?
  46. Do you like to be on camera?
  47. Do you think that everyone can be a leader?
  48. Are there any social rules or laws that you disagree with?
  49. If your family needed a loaf of bread, would you steal it?
  50. Do you believe that magic is real?


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I love supporting couples connect through passion and commitment while taking time to understand how to build their relationship. A relationship that is able to address issues and find direction during the difficult moments. If you would like to explore the relationship building course, I welcome you to read more about it HERE.



Conversation Topics To Strengthen Your Relationship

Juan Santos M.S., CRC, LPC

Mr. Juan Santos is a professional counselor, private practice consultant and book author who specializes in relationship stability and understanding separation indicators. He has conducted hundreds of couples counseling sessions. Mr. Santos is the creator of two successful relationship strengthening courses: "A Marriage Preparation Course: For Premarital Couples" and "The Relationship Building Course: For struggling couples". He is the author of the following self-help psychology books: Couples Workbook: Making Your Relationship Work; 100 Ways Married Men Can Remain Emotionally Connected; Life Without Stress, My Journal, and Parenting Education for Hispanic Families. Mr. Santos is the owner of Santos Counseling PLLC a counseling private practice located in Greensboro and Winston-Salem, NC. Mr. Santos is currently completing his doctoral studies at the University of the Cumberlands. He spends his time away from work with his family enjoying the great outdoors.

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Santos, J. (2018). Conversation Topics To Strengthen Your Relationship. Psych Central. Retrieved on July 16, 2019, from


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