5 thoughts on “How to Stop Black-and-White Thinking

  • June 8, 2018 at 5:18 am

    Bravo Rachel!!
    Simply expressed, accessible, therefore powerful. This is the basis of dialectical thinking, a thinking pattern we are not good at as our culture tends to separate and categorise.
    Thanks!

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    • June 8, 2018 at 3:45 pm

      Jean, you’re right – it can seem easier to “organize” issues into entirely one way or another, but this often works to our detriment.

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  • June 8, 2018 at 9:24 am

    I related to much of what you said and realize I fall victim to the “always/never” type statements…which I acknowledge is harmful! The title reads “How To Stop Black & White Thinking” but I don’t think I read the “how to” part. Is there further reading on this?

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    • June 8, 2018 at 3:49 pm

      Hi Christine – Thanks for your question. As stated in the post, ‘Extreme terms such as “always”, “never”, and “either-or” can be substituted by “frequently”, “at times”, or “seldom”’. This is just a start, but it can be a powerful step. Many of the other examples of dialectical thinking listed can be helpful remedies to “always/never” thinking.

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      • June 9, 2018 at 9:21 am

        ok….duh! Thank you!

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