Some of us think that being authentic means we should say whatever is on our mind without regard for how our words may be taken.

“I am sick and tired of tiptoeing around everyone,” we say, “for now on, I am going to be real. If you don’t like it, lump it!”

This kind of authenticity however, is usually only the angry flip side of the fear that drives us to “tiptoe” around in the first place....
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