Archives for August, 2014

Addiction Recovery

No One Can Push Your Buttons Without Permission

Many of us are quick to blame others for how we feel: “He makes me so mad!” or “She really hurt my feelings.

It is true that people can be hurtful and it is important to acknowledge when we are feeling that way. Denying our emotions will only make things worse, not better. But did someone really “make me angry” or are we feeling the anger in us getting kicked up in response to the way...
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Addiction Recovery

In-To-Me-See

True and meaningful intimacy is always based on a foundation of two romantic partners who allow each other into the inner depths of who they really are: Into me, see.

Still, many of us choose to hide behind a façade of who we aren't  because we are so afraid to let our partner know who we really are. We are sure that if he or she would get to know the real us, they would reject us.

What...
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