Archives for September, 2012

Psychotherapy

The Narcissistic Father

During a session yesterday, I was shocked when Jeff told me that his former pastor and friend was charging him for their "sessions," calling to tell Jeff when he needed a session, and going so far as to ask Jeff to pay off his credit cards. It seemed unethical, and a betrayal of trust.

This got me thinking about relationship dynamics, and what happens when the person who's supposed to be the one giving...
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Psychotherapy

The Indifference Defense

In our first session following last week's break, Julian began by speaking about a feeling of pointlessness at his job and went on to question the value of therapy: what had been accomplished so far, and was it unrealistic to believe he could really change? It's not unusual for clients to minimize the importance of the work during breaks, as a way to cope with feelings of unbearable need or...
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