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Archives for September, 2014

Couples

Are You Being Emotionally Abused?

With so much (rightful) attention being paid to physical abuse and domestic violence, I wanted to also shine some light on emotional abuse, which can be just as psychologically damaging.  But it is also, in some ways, easier to rationalize.  People who are being emotionally abused might downplay their own victimization by comparing themselves to people who are being physically abused: "Well, I'd never stand for that!"

But are you accepting treatment that you shouldn't?  Are you...
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Adolescents

Fat Shaming, Slut Shaming: What All the Shaming Means for Your Daughters, and You

There's a fresh wave of stories about yet another young model told she's "too fat for the runway."  To the vast majority of us, that young woman doesn't have a pound to spare.

And there's always the latest story of another young woman driven to suicide after being raped, or being bullied for being too sexual or not sexual enough or too hot or not hot enough.  The online world is rife with opportunities to be told...
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Adolescents

Worst. Parent. Ever.

Every parent has had that feeling at one point or another.  It could be an error in judgment, a moment of frustration, a public spectacle, a comparison to other people's Lucky us, there are a ton of scenarios that can evoke feelings of anxiety, insecurity, self-doubt, and self-laceration.

What if you're having those feelings with some regularity?  Here are ideas of what to do.

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Adolescents

How to Be the Parent You Wish You Had

Some people learned how to parent by experiencing good parenting.  Some have learned the opposite (what not to do) because of the family they grew up in.   But there are particular challenges for those who were abused or neglected, once they have their own children.

Here are some ideas of how to face those challenges and become the parent you wish you'd had.

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