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Archives for July, 2014

Assertiveness

5 Tips for Breaking Up

This post was inspired by a client of mine who was talking for years (literally) about ending a relationship, and she finally pulled the  trigger.  (Go, you! and you know who you are!)   If you're having trouble breaking up with someone, here's how to get it done.

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Parenting

What Does Your Teen Really Think About You?

In my novel, "Don't Try to Find Me" (out today!), Rachel's 14-year-old daughter Marley runs away, and during the social media campaign to bring her home, many secrets are revealed.  Among them: What Marley thinks about her mom is radically different from what Rachel believes she's communicating.

While my novel presents a high stakes fictional situation, many parents can relate to the idea that we don't necessarily know what our teens are thinking about us as parents and...
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Relationships

How to Spot a Narcissist

A lot of people assume narcissists are easy to spot, that they talk obsessively about themselves, for example, or never seem to care what you have to say.  Those are the obvious narcissists.  This post is about the charming narcissists who can fly under the radar until you feel like you're in too deep to get out.

I've written before about how to know you're involved with a narcissist, and on strategies for handling the...
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