Trauma and Attachment

My client–we’ll call her Marta–alternately cries and acts tough: “I don’t need anyone…will anyone ever really love me?…screw it.”   Her latest boyfriend is just like all the rest, with…



Are We A Match?

Often, I work with couples who’ve begun to ask that question.  “I used to love that she was so different,” he’ll say, “it was exciting. But now it feels like…



Money and Mental Health

We’re not really supposed to speak about money in polite company.  Therapists who are incredibly comfortable talking to their clients about sex and intimacy and even abuse can balk when…