We all have wants and needs. Other people play key roles in meeting those wants and needs. That’s how it works.
So maybe you’re so bent on getting what you need that you only see the parts of others that meet those needs, ignoring the rest. Then it backfires and you’re upset. This is narcissistic, but probably a common form of narcissism.

For example:
Someone in your life who is impressed with you...
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