FROM CHAPTER 4 OF "THE HUMAN MAGNET SYNDROME: THE CODEPENDENT NARCISSIST TRAP (2018)"


When two romantically interested people have instant feelings of connection and comfort, they are experiencing relational chemistry. Chemistry is a reflexive and automatic phenomenon; that is, it is simultaneously and mutually experienced by oppositely compatible people. People often refer to this reaction as feeling “sparks” or love at first sight. The chemistry provokes a shared emotional experience of hope, excitement, and...
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