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When Your Son Suddenly Becomes Your Transgender Daughter

Many of you have asked, 'What became of Terrwyn*?' What became of my step-son, the horribly abused and wounded little boy I wrote about in the popular article Nurturing Step-Mom, Jealous Birthmom. What became of the quintessential little boy who loved playing football ('soccer' to our American cousins) and dreamed of joining the Manchester United team when he grew up. What became of the lad who treasured his Romelu Lukaku autograph and never missed a Reds' match on telly while silently...
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The Wrong Uses for Righteous Anger

Victims of narcissistic abuse hold a lot of anger. Righteous anger, deserved anger, just anger. They may not know it, but they do. Acknowledging the anger, accepting it, embracing it, expressing it and ultimately working it through takes time, time, time and a lot of work.

It's easy to get stuck in the anger phase, even after the heat of your original wrath has been cooled by the healing passage of time. That's where I'm at. (Yes, I ended that sentence with...
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